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Betsy Jonas

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June 5, 2025

5 things every CrossFitter should stop worrying about—starting now:

🏋️‍♂️ 5 Things Every CrossFitter Should Stop Worrying About

If you’ve ever stared at the whiteboard and thought, “Should I even be here?”—you’re not alone.

CrossFit is a powerful, life-changing training method—but it can also feel intimidating at times, especially when you're starting out. The truth? Most of the things we stress about in the gym don’t matter nearly as much as we think they do.

Here are 5 things every CrossFitter should stop worrying about—starting now:

1. RX vs. Scaling

We get it—hitting an RX workout feels like a badge of honor. But here’s the thing: RX is just a suggestion, not a requirement.

Scaling doesn’t mean you’re weaker or less capable. It means you’re smart enough to train in a way that supports your current ability, keeps you safe, and helps you get better faster. And truthfully, a well-scaled workout done with intensity is more effective than an RX one done poorly.

Pro tip: The goal is progress, not perfection.

2. Being the Last One Done

No one is judging you—seriously. If anything, finishing a tough workout when everyone else is already cheering you on? That’s legendary.

Every athlete in the room knows what it feels like to grind through a WOD. If you're giving it your all, you're doing exactly what CrossFit is about. And that “last one done” feeling? That’s where mental toughness is built.

Fun fact: The most applause in any CrossFit gym usually goes to the last person finishing.

3. Comparing Your Score to Everyone Else’s

CrossFit thrives on community, friendly competition, and measurable progress. But when score-watching turns into self-doubt, it’s time to zoom out.

Your only real competition is you—the version of yourself that walked in yesterday. Focus on how you’re improving in strength, endurance, mobility, or mindset.

Celebrate PRs, not rankings.

4. What You Look Like Doing It

Whether you're mid-burpee, struggling with a pull-up, or drenched in sweat—everyone in the gym is too focused on surviving the WOD to notice (or care) what anyone else looks like.

CrossFit isn’t about being Instagram-perfect. It’s about real movement, real effort, and real results. Show up, work hard, and own every rep—even the ugly ones.

Spoiler: Confidence looks way better than flawless form.

5. Needing to “Get in Shape” Before Starting

This one’s for the folks still on the fence: You don’t need to be fit to start CrossFit. You start CrossFit to get fit. Every athlete began somewhere—nervous, unsure, maybe even out of breath during warm-ups.

What matters most is consistency, not where you're starting from.

CrossFit meets you where you are. And so do we.

Final Thoughts

Every CrossFitter has had these worries—we’ve all been there. But the magic happens when you stop stressing over the stuff that doesn’t matter, and start focusing on what does:

  • Showing up.

  • Working hard.

  • Getting just 1% better every day.

So take a deep breath, trust the process, and keep showing up. You’re doing better than you think—and we’re proud of you.

💬 Coach’s Note from Coach Kendall

“I’ve coached athletes of every level—from day-one beginners to seasoned competitors—and the biggest difference between those who succeed and those who quit isn’t strength or skill. It’s mindset.

Don’t waste energy worrying about where you stack up. Focus on showing up, working hard, and being coachable. Every time you step into the gym, you’re investing in a stronger, healthier version of yourself—and I’m proud of you for that.

Keep grinding, keep growing. We’ve got your back.”

— Coach Kendall 💪

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